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Право закрыть за собой дверь

By Анна Черных • 11.01.2022 • Разумное потребление
Право закрыть за собой дверь | Блог Анны Черных

Впервые опубликовано в инстаграме @ann_chernykh 15 июня 2019 года.

Хозяйка квартиры, где мы снимаем комнату, Соль, солнечная шестидесятилетняя женщина родом из Чили.
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Приехав, мы вышли из лифта с чемоданом прямо в её горячие объятья.
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А вчера она встретила нас, демонстрируя платье, в котором собирается с коллегами на танцы, настоятельно вопрошая моего мнения насчёт того, насколько она в нём хороша. Хороша, спору нет. Но каково же было моё удивление, когда через минуту я вышла на кухню, а она окликнула меня из своей комнаты (дверь в которую она никогда не закрывает, будучи дома) в одном белье, показывая другое платье, которое, возможно, подойдёт больше.
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— Мне ведь шестьдесят один год, представляешь?! — Выжидательно улыбается и явно ожидает изумления и комплимента о том, как молодо она выглядит!
— Oh really, — дружелюбно-вежливо говорю я, именно столько я бы ей и дала.
— Это всё спорт, много спорта, — гладит меня по голому плечу, — тебе тоже стоит всерьёз задуматься о своём теле.
— Oh really, — говорю и закрываю дверь.
— Красивое украшение! И так хорошо на чёрном смотрится.
Трогает украшение, а потом и платье, на фоне которого оно так хорошо смотрится.
— Спасибо, — говорю, мягко отстраняя её руку, — увидела сегодня на Бергманнштрассе и не смогла пройти мимо.
— (меняется в лице) О, на Бергманнштрассе дорогие магазины!
— Да разные там есть, это вот 20€ стоило.
— (широко раскрывая глаза) Но 20€ это очень дорого!
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Я не стала, конечно, спорить и напоминать, сколько я плачу ей за комнату, в которой мы живём, или говорить, что, как по мне, лучше одно классное, чем пять копеечных, которые висят у неё повсюду. Просто в очередной раз закрыла дверь.
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Когда-то из-за страха наткнуться на такую хозяйку, я бы вовсе не сняла комнату в чужом жилье. И в случае с Берлином, где довольно дорого снять квартиру целиком (по крайней мере там, где я хочу) или отель, вовсе не поехала бы на две недели. Или жутко злилась бы. Или изо всех сил пыталась бы ей понравится. А сейчас записываю эти истории, еле сдерживая улыбку, мол, вот же, как бывает! И даже с некоторым любопытством, что она ещё выкинет)
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Где-то глубоко зажило и больше не болит. Не нужно бояться, избегать, ругаться или хлопать дверью. Просто спокойно закрыть. В любой момент.

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